@piggie, @lunar, @Wendy, and @Blake, do we have some examples of American ENFJs type 3??? Besides Taylor Swift???
All of the chicks we talk about with this type are European. And Taylor Swift seems sooooo different from all of them. Why is that? What’s going on? What is this place?!?!?! Literally, just in the way they dress. All of these European chicks vs. Taylor. Taylor conforms to what is popular to wear and how to present yourself. The European chicks where whatever the fuck. Let’s look at Helena Bonham Carter again. She likes to wear 80s themed dresses with combat boots. Okay, cool. But would you ever see Taylor wearing that? Fuck no. See, the more I think about it, the more I think I’m a type 8. @Blake, recalculate and get back to me. Is this a cultural thing? I feel like I’m running a moat into the ground with my questions.
Seriously, I see myself more closely related to Taylor than any of these chicks. Is there a cultural thing to do with this? And even though I see myself closer to Taylor, I don’t see myself as fake as she is. Judge away. There is a clip I saw of Taylor once at a concert. It was a huge fucking concert. She walked on stage and said, “Aww you all came for me?” I was so angry at this. My reaction was “FUCK YOU.”. So where do I fit here? Because I don’t see a comparison in any of these broads. If they’re sexual and grabby, okay. But maybe I’m seeing myself more relatable to Brando. Type 8.
“They want gratification of their base impulses and they are good at seeking out the avenues for the attainment of these desires.” “But, the thing is that ENFJs transcend conventional morality in a way, and often, by reveling in sensual and cathartic experience, save humanity from mediocrity.” “sexual beast, tortured soul, a lot of nonverbal and interesting visual moments, most of which are sexual, and did I mention sex. Yes, ENFJs are sex. Pornographic beasts. Not so much the physical act of sex exclusively, but the pornographic and obscene aspects of existence as a feeling creature in an increasingly mechanized and regimented world.” “They are monsters of love, monsters of experience, monsters of art. Look into this whole monster archetype because it is what ENFJs reveal in a rather profound way. They are not nice. But, they are not evil either. They more reveal evil through their pursuits. They are not afraid to explore the limits of the human condition.” - all of these quotes are from this article: https://www.stellarmaze.com/enfj-mad-bad-and-dangerous-to-know/
The only thing in there that I can see that MAY be a difference is the positive vs. cynical aspect of type 3 and type 8. I don’t feel as fluffy as an type 3, but I don’t feel as completely “evil” as a type 8. Is this maybe the contrast of life and death aspects in my astrology - with Scorpio and Pluto and that bitch Venus? Help, oh help! I don’t see myself in this mix of strange broads. No type it is!!!