if most people ‘play’ the victim.
i see INFP as a real victim.
when they show kindness, it is one of those kindness where they don’t brag about it.
like when Jesus says, don’t let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that God will reward you in secret.
and most of the time, they don’t even know they’re being kind.
they almost NEVER brag about it. or even talk about it.
and they don’t even expect the kindness in return… or… do they?
in a GRAND sense. they do expect other people to be kind. but they realize people aren’t.
or… do they realize?
they’re one of the most type to be upset over injustice.
i never knew until later, that my INFP brother told himself
"i’ll never be like him(ESTP) when i grow up"
they’re the type to watch animal documentary and become a vegan.
to make them do anything, you have to INSPIRE their heart.
oh btw , DON’T START A BUSINESS.
unless. you know that you won’t be making much money from it.
if you’re completely okay with the fact that you’re gonna be helping people, but not going to be rich out of it. then sure.
BUT, if you’re starting a business thinking everyone will be ‘inspired’ and see ‘vision’ like you do, then , please stop, or consult your ideas to at least 10 people, not your 10 INFx friends.
sometimes i wanna tell them to ‘BE more selfish’
they’re the type to apologize when their foot was stepped on by someone.
they’re the type to blame themself when someone cheats on them.
no. it’s not your fault that your foot was there. they should’ve been careful.
it’s not your fault they cheated on you, or left you. they should’ve worked it out with you.
it seems like INFP-INTJ dynamic works pretty well in many cases.
INFPs really don’t ‘bother’ people.
they’re the type to watch you sleep until you wake up.
or just sit quietly in their thoughts while someone ‘should wake up’
when INFP gets angry…or the proper term is. blow up.
there is no mercy.
i’ve seen a few INFP destroy the other person .
if their ‘heart’ is on fire, then there is no stopping them.
it’s like when Super Mario eats(?) a star and goes on a trance
INFPs. follow your dream.
but it doesn’t mean you have to get a job that pays you to do what you want. not necessarily, no.
but if that happens. then good for you.
one friend means you have everything.
and 2, that means you’re very successful in life. and more than enough.
any more than that, call them your acquaintances. don’t give them your all.