so, we don’t really talk too much about ENFP on this forum.
compared to other types.
but there are so many ENFPs out there.
i was talking to my brother and I wanted to share something about ENFP.
they’re like a sweet fucked up candy.
ENFP, when they find someone interesting, they charm the hell out of that person, and when that person falls for ENFP, ENFP falls hard too, and then, when they realize the other person falls for ENFP too, the ENFP find that person no longer interesting.
and they slowly fade away in ungraceful manner.
leaving the other person confused and hurt.
they have a thing for ‘sacred’ things.
like they find people that are already taken. and are attracted to them.
and when that person becomes single, ENFP finds that person less interesting…
and they can’t help it.
how does ENFP become loyal?
they’re like a paradox.
it doesn’t make any sense in my mind.
like, if you start liking ENFP more than they like you, then they start losing interest.
but if you like ENFP less than they like you, they get kinda butthurt and become cold and distance because of their pride.
so you have to basically match ENFP’s interest level. but is that even really possible?
i feel like in every relationship one person likes the other person slightly more. or maybe that’s an illusion.
anyways, ENFP, they can’t make up their mind.
they like everybody.
not everybody, but a lot of people.
lunar describes herself as a mush a lot.
but ENFP feels like a super mush.
the more I try to understand ENFP, it doesn’t make sense in my mind.
good thing I don’t fall for people easily.
but damn if I was someone who gets all emotionally tangled, I’d be getting fucked by ENFP left and right.
and ENFP is not even direct about things. so it’s like… They just kinda leave you hanging.
like, they hold onto people they don’t find them interesting anymore, and emotionally frustrates the other person.
it’s like they enjoy having backups and rebounds but they don’t really go back to them.
they only give an illusion to go back just because they’re bored.
and their excuse is they don’t want to leave on a bad note.
their logic doesn’t make sense…
i don’t hate ENFP personally.
I like them.
they probably won’t ever come to this forum. because they don’t look for stuff like this.
they just flutter by like butterfly and land on one flower and go somewhere else to another flower.
ENFPs are fun.