do we actually use them? or are they really just an ignoring function? or both?
how do you use your 7th and 8th function?
any INFJs INTJs INFPs ENFJs and ENTP and Blake
how do each use these functions?
Hmmm, how do I use my Fi and Ne?
i just asked my ENFP brother, who uses Ne and Fi.
he tells me Fi is ‘wanting to feel appreciated for what one did’
i guess in that sense I don’t care that much.
when people say "thank you"
in my mind I just go “yeah yeah whatever words are just words”
respect > appreciation
he said “when you use your Fi, you use your Se with it, like ‘yeah I know I’m good’ with confidence”
me: how do I use Ne?
bro: Hmmm, idk you don’t really use it
me: how do i NOT use Ne?
bro: because you always say ‘this is what it is. it doesn’t have to be anything else’, but often times when you have an epiphany about something, you use your Ne but always following with Ti. never just Ne by itself.
… Hmmm. Idk if my brother knows what he’s talking about.
my Fi was learned consciously through Bible.
if bible didn’t tell me to take care of my family, I could care less about any of them except my wife.
i treat my family because I know I have to, not because I necessarily want to.
I know doing Fi is beneficial for my soul and energy, so I do it.
me : how do you use Ne?
bro : it’s like bunch of what ifs
me : do I ever say that?
bro : the only time you use ‘what ifs’ is when you already know the answer and you’re trying to make the listener come to the conclusion you want. it’s a very specific ‘what if’. It’s ‘What if’ with an intention.
me: so… I’m not really using Ne…?
bro: the only time you use it, is when I ask you questions and you answer it realistically. like you recognize it but it becomes Se. But i really appreciate it when you say “let me stop being so realistic and answer your question with an interesting answer”
this is much to be explored…
I’m gonna try recognizing 7th and 8th function in other types.
ENXP though, it seems like they don’t care too much about bad smell. it’s either they have weak nose… Or They don’t really care.
i don’t recall ENXP telling me their favorite food. like specifically.
they eat just about anything and they like trying different things.
I can’t try new things unless I know it’s “safe”
and Ne Dom Really don’t care about physical appearance at the end of the day. they prefer heart of gold way more than models with shitty personality.
Ni Dom, How do they use Si?
wow. that one is very difficult because Ni and Si somehow looks similar to me.
I’ve seen Ni tell me their life stories and there’s so many details I feel like it’s an Si.
what the heck is Si?