ummmm… shit. i don’t know. hahahha
it’s not so much a sensation for me.
it’s a fact that i know what he’s doing is purely self serving at core.
because after he feels better, he would just get out of my room and go about doing whatever he wants.
i think others may experience this differently, and some people are not aware of it at all.
now, i never get this from INFPs.
they are the last person to ‘use’ anyone. if anything, they get used.
and i try to protect INFPs from being used. because my brother is an INFP and i see this happen very often.
with INTJ, it’s more of fair-trade. it’s like… making a deal.
here, you do this for me, i’ll do this for you.
INTPs also don’t do this. but they don’t really get used either.
they neither use people or get used by people.
ENTJ or ESTJ, and even ISTJ, they can be commanding. but doesn’t feel used.
because they usually do all the work.
so i guess if they have Te in 1st or 2nd, they don’t give you that feeling of being used.
believe it or not, i get this feeling from a lot of Fe users.
not so much ENFJs or ESFJs, because they like to please you.
but more from INFJs and ISFJs.
their emotional manipulation to get what they want, is what leaves me feeling, ‘oh my goodness you selfish bastard!’
i get this from ENTPs the most actually.
and many ENTPs have admitted to me that they use people like a drone sometimes.
or for their selfish needs.
although they mean well…which is hard to believe.
i don’t know many ENTPs who keep people around if they are useless to them.
unless they are very old and mature in age.
or they have a family to take care of so it’s more of a mandatory thing.
with ESTPs, not me, but other ESTPs, they do it in a way that makes me feel good for doing them a favor.
although probably at the end of the day, i was ‘used’, but i don’t feel that icky feeling afterwards.
it seems like ENTP doesn’t consider other people’s time and energy,
they just wanna do things when they are in the mood.
but if ENTP is tired, which is rare in itself. they’ll kick people out real quick.
although other people are having fun.
so that self-serving attitude is what i notice and make me think ‘damn, that person is so selfish!’