Thoughts on “INFJ Door Slam”… I have people who are a part of my life, people who are not a part of my life, and people who are peripheral acquaintances who will probably never weigh heavily enough in my psyche to be either in or out. This is most people. The lukewarm middle. But once someone has been let into the inner circle and betrayed the sacred bond of friendship, they are OUT. And once you are out it is very, very, very difficult to get back in. Actually, I don’t think anybody ever has. I don’t see it as a punishment, per se. It’s more an acknowledging that the person I thought they were is not the person they actually are. There IS no relationship and WAS no relationship. Therefore, goodbye!
Anyone else out there relate? Thoughts? Do other types do this?
By the way, I vacillate between INFJ and ENFJ as far as my own typing. Or quite possibly I am something else altogether. But I keep coming back to the INFJ… Maybe E/INFJ? Is that even possible?