okay, so probably my last night on stellar maze because I am going back to my wife from brother vacation. and gotta spend quality time with her.
but before I go.
i was talking to my brothers about ENTP and ENFP.
so I can better understand Ne.
Ne to me just seems like over thinking.
seeing so many possibilities. but not coming to a conclusion. so to better understand, I’ll do a comparison.
Ne will think is this 'half full or half empty’
Se will just say "it’s half."
then Ne will say "But is it really half? what if there is a small difference? it could be a little more than half, or a little less"
Se will say “does it matter? it’s close to being half. or just measure and say 49.987% or 50.013%. regardless. it’s half.”
Ne will look at the figure and say "is it 6 or 9?"
Se will say “it’s 9 this way, 6 that way”
Ne analyzes the situation. sometimes over analyze.
Se changes the situation. present with the moment and change the outcome.
Ne assumes possibilities
Se sees what’s happening
Ne. What if tomorrow.
Se. Tomorrow is.
Ne looks for more conclusions/probability
Se comes to a conclusion
Ne talks about the possibilities
Se breaks down the possibilities.
Ne lives in imaginations
Se lives in the moment
Ne thinks about what could’ve, should’ve, would’ve
Se thinks about what to do next. or now.
now, I mentioned okay vs Ok in my title.
I’ll tell you why.
i have one ENTP friend that calls me a practical mentor.
and he calls me a lot to ask me questions that sometimes drives me crazy.
him: my boss texted me saying ‘ok’ And i think it’s a bad sign
me: why is “Ok” a bad sign? he is agreeing. he didn’t say no.
him: he used to text the full “okay”, but now he’s just saying “ok”, I feel like he could be mad at me.
me: why would he be mad?
him: because I was late to work.
me: well, maybe he’s mad at you. But he still said "ok"
him: yeah but his tone changed.
me: are you afraid he might fire you?
him: I don’t think he’ll fire me, but
me: dude. stop over thinking. he said ‘ok’ After You explained to him why you were late.
him: yeah but it’s like when a girl texts you from “heyy” to “hey”, that means she’s no longer interested in you, or slowly fading away.
me: so what?!?! then change the fucking situation! start building credit and stop over analyzing about this! go do you work! don’t worry. and just move on and change how he thinks of you.
so I’ve come to realize Ne have hard time living in the moment and altering the outcome. instead they over think about stuff and gets in their head with no action.
ENTP use logic in these ways.
they think of possibilities. and calls it logic.
and yes, it makes sense. I can see why it makes sense.
but logic sometimes is a theory. and a theory is not always true.
N by itself is all over the place. that’s why you need Se from both side to make sense of the situation.
that’s why. Se N Se. SeNSe. makes sense?