This is so hard for me to fathom. I can’t even fully explain the situation without my id exploding in anger all over itself, but here goes. So…this INFP is in a relationship, and if social media is any indication, is seemingly fully present to their SO. Yet they are at the same time actively pursing me?? Someone who’s rejected them repeatedly and has only ever extended platonic greetings.
And yet this INFP persists and even appears to gradually arrange their entire life around getting close to me. What is behind this type of behavior and thinking? Also I feel bad for the GF!! How can someone be so deceptive? Almost as a perpetual state? Basically, what I’m asking is who and what is INFP in obsession mode and do I have anything to fear? Or is this just my Fe talking (I’m INFJ) and being unable to turn off emotional absorption? Fi is some powerful, fascinating shit and I wonder if something specific is being expressed for its own sake because that’s what Fi does, or if this person actually wants something from me and I need to take drastic action that ignoring them hasn’t accomplished.
What is going on?? Please help.