I’m feeling spiritual.
so I want to try to make sense and talk about practicality of sex and the Bible.
when two people have sex, there is a spiritual energy exchanging between the two that we cannot observe when it’s happening.
sexual energy can be converted into a powerful tool.
why is masturbation not good for you?
although it may release tensions and stress, it’s only temporary with no real practical solution.
if one uses the sexual energy into working out instead of masturbating, the person could convert the energy more into what is practical and useful.
sexual tension release gives gratification, without much effort.
it rewards the brain with temporary good feeling.
but when that becomes habitual, the person can start to resort to laziness than being productive.
there is almost nothing productive about watching pornography. And it doesn’t harm to NOT masturbate.
moving onto cheating on your spouse.
why would bible permit divorce even though God hates divorce?
the only time God says it’s okay to divorce is when the spouse commits a sexual adultery.
sex must be so powerful enough that God is allowing divorce.
when the spouse is having sex with someone else, now that person is bonding physically, chemically, and spiritually. and probably most of the energy being exchanged is not observable in modern science technology.
statistically, happiest couples are having exclusive sex between the two, and averaging 3 times a week.
and what’s considered cheating? although it may not be technically an adultery, when your energy is given to someone else than your spouse, you are taking away the energy that was supposed to be spent to your spouse to someone else instead.
that energy can be emotionally and/or physically.
Nikola Tesla converted his sexual energy into his works. and he’s considered one of the smartest man in his era.
cheating is only a temporary pleasure. but it always leads to negative outcome.
you reap what you sow.
literally speaking, when you sow a sunflower seed, you will NOT reap a rose. you get sunflower.
that phrase is what basically karma is.
God has created this place that when bad energy is being released, for example, hurting innocent people, the bad energy will come back. it is the law of nature.
and just because modern science technology cannot observe those energies, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
when we speak words to people, whether it is heard or written, energy is being transfered and it can change the dynamic. not only that, it can heal or break people.
'sticks and stones may break my bones but words never hurt me?'
HAHAHAHAHA fucking Stupid ass quote That needs to be disposed.
yes, sticks and stones can break someone’s bones. but words can deeply cut through the heart.
people can have heart failure from hearing certain words.
some people commit suicide because of words.
bible says to physically discipline children, but it NEVER says to verbally abuse them. And it does not say to insult them or call them names.
mental damage goes further than just physical damage.
physical wounds can heal, and can get stronger.
but verbal abuse leaves deep scar. it doesn’t make someone a better person. not mentally. the person becomes mentally unstable.
so that all goes back to energy. although some energy is invisible to the eyes, it is real. energy doesn’t lie.
when I say “energy doesn’t lie” most INFJ seems to get that phrase without me explaining too much.
so going back to sex, if the person cheats, that energy will have a harmful effect.
but if the person confesses and spouse forgives, as the Bible says, love covers multitude of sins.
that is the power of love.
that is the beauty of confession and forgiveness.
God is love. he wants to forgive. but we must confess our wrongdoings that may bother our conscience.
and the attitude of confession is what matters. because true confession means having the desire to do better.
or the bible might call it, repentance.
repentance does not mean saying sorry.
it means turning around.
and how does it practically benefit us?
it creates peace and harmony.
it makes mentally, physically and spiritually stable/healthy.
healthy life means happy life.
who doesn’t want to be happy?
have you ever felt the burden lifting off your soul when you confess something and the other person forgives?
do you know what that does to your whole body, soul, and spirit?
although it may not be literally observable, the energy doesn’t lie.
yes. sexual energy is very powerful.
but beyond that, love is the most powerful.
… To be continued…
part two. why love is the most powerful energy. with bible.
and how love covers multitude of sins(wrongdoings)
and why God is love and always ready to forgive.
and why confession and repentance benefits you more than it benefits God.