Hahah you make it sound like living with an intp would be really difficult for me!
Yes, he’s pretty easy-going, but he gets bored easily. He likes having something to do or watch (or will build models while watching tv for example, and often gets up to walk to computer to check something out then go back to tv). Gets bored halfway while washing the dishes, sits to watch tv, then back to dishes. Perhaps a bit ADD, or maybe it’s his astrology. I guess I am kind of parent-like in that I redirect his focus and also handle a lot of the finances and paperwork stuff that he has so little attention for.
I’m surprised that intj girl didn’t propose herself! haha The istp-intj couple sounds really endearing too.
I think other people have said that infp inspires a kind of “protective” instinct in people. That’s kind of how I feel about my husband. He’s the taller, rougher looking guy (kind of into blue collar punk image), but he’s generally sweet and it’s very easy to pour affection onto him since he’s usually very content or pleased to receive… kind of like a happy baby. He was kind of bullied as a kid, and he’s not sure why (maybe he was just targeted randomly or seemed like he had a passive aura). This riles up all my protective feeling because I feel burning justice against bullies! I am actually surprised I myself was not bullied more, but maybe potential bullies could sense it would be harder to push me around. During highschool he toughened up his image and had more of a cool attitude, so people left him alone. I know a few infp who do that… kind of trying to cultivate a cooler attitude and image to kind of mask their quirky geekiness.
How long have your intj-infp couple been together? That’s really sweet, how smitten and supportive he is of her.
I apparently won my husband’s interest because I made a cut-out of a turtle’s silhouette and made it kiss him as a joke/flirt. Hahaha… so stupid and cute! Highschool hijinx. He says I am his best friend and that is a lot of responsibility, but even though he is generally friendly and tolerant to everyone, he doesn’t make that many true and deep friends.
Anyway, in conclusion, he probably makes too many :0 !! cute-shock faces to be considered an istp.
As for back to the topic, he probably doesn’t think much about me hanging around online and causing a small bit of chaos wherever I be. Maybe he thinks it is cool even if he has a bit of worry it might come and bite me in the butt given how crazy online brigading can get these days, especially against outspoken women.